Reflections on Generosity

97: Fullness of Generosity

Serving Nonprofits by Chany Reon Ockert Consulting, LLC, CFRE Season 2 Episode 97

"...There is a difference between quantity and fullness. You can have a lot of money and still be empty. There is no fullness in your heart...."

This week, Pope Francis passed away.  In honor of his teaching on generosity, I am reflecting on his homily from November 8, 2015.

Reflection question:

  • Are you asking for leftover generosity?  Or, are you asking for true generosity in your messages to donors?

Reflection on quote:

In his words, he talks about giving from fullness and not from leftovers.  This is a mark of true generosity.  Yes, sometimes, our messages to donors request the leftovers.  Can you spare a dollar?  Every bit counts.  Would you just fill the gap? Remember us in your will. All of these phrases give the impression that the donor would only want to give from their leftovers.  Yet, that makes the decision for them and deprives them of true, sacrificial generosity.


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This week, Pope Francis passed away.  In honor of his teaching on generosity, I am reflecting on his homily from November 8, 2015.


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Today Jesus also tells us that the benchmark is not quantity but fullness. There is a difference between quantity and fullness. You can have a lot of money and still be empty. There is no fullness in your heart. This week, think about the difference there is between quantity and fullness. It is not a matter of the wallet, but of the heart. There is a difference between the wallet and the heart.... There are diseases of the heart, which reduce the heart to the wallet.... This is not good! To love God “with all your heart” means to trust in him, in his providence, and to serve him in the poorest brothers and sisters without expecting anything in return.
Allow me to tell you a story, which happened in my previous diocese. A mother and her three children were at the table, the father was at work. They were eating Milan-style cutlets.... There was a knock at the door and one of the children — they were young, 5, 6 and the oldest was 7 — comes and says: “Mom, there is a beggar asking for something to eat”. And the mom, a good Christian, asks them: “What shall we do?” — “Let’s give him something, mom…” – “Ok”. She takes her fork and knife and cuts the cutlets in half. “Ah no, mom, no! Not like this! Take something from the fridge” — “No! Let’s make three sandwiches with this!”. The children learned that true charity is given, not with what is left over, but with what we need. That afternoon I am sure that the children were a bit hungry.... But this is how it’s done!


Faced with the needs of our neighbours, we are called — like these children and the halved cutlets — to deprive ourselves of essential things, not only the superfluous; we are called to give the time that is necessary, not only what is extra; we are called to give immediately and unconditionally some of our talent, not after using it for our own purposes or for our own group.


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In his words, he talks about giving from fullness and not from leftovers.  This is a mark of true generosity.  Yes, sometimes, our messages to donors request the leftovers.  Can you spare a dollar?  Every bit counts.  Would you just fill the gap? Remember us in your will. All of these phrases give the impression that the donor would only want to give from their leftovers.  Yet, that makes the decision for them and deprives them of true, sacrificial generosity.


Let’s reflect on one question this week:


Are you asking for leftover generosity?  Or, are you asking for true generosity in your messages to donors? 

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